Is that a wink or just a normal reflex? Is he touchy-feely or maybe pervy? Get vital information with a single glance.

Trying to figure out what the opposite sex is thinking can be an enigma, especially when you have just met them and you are trying to decipher whether things will last or will go anywhere at all.
Men and women often have very different ways of flirting through body language. This can lead to confusion or unnecessarily hurt feelings when each assumes that the other is not interested.
However, if you can read a person’s body language, especially the more subtle ones, it will enhance your dating life. You can know what a person thinks and feels by examining their subconscious body language.
So if you are sneaky and have had enough of trying to work out whether you are wasting your time or whether this could go anywhere, we can give you some special little secrets to look out for that will show his intentions straight away.

Room scanning

Male interest is basically always switched on and ready to respond to opportunity when female availability and interest are signaled and noticed. Guys who are available and looking for females tend to scan the room, partly to look for available females, but also to indicate they are available themselves.

The half smile

There is something suspicious about a half smile which is usually because the split face gesture signals that each side is telling a different story.
A smile that appears as though it is like a sneer-like grin usually indicates that he isn’t really being that honest or sincere with you.

Mirroring

Mirroring or synchronizing gestures and positions is a signal of interest and attraction. 'Mirrored' or synchronized body language between two people encourages feelings of trust and rapport because it generates unconscious feelings of affirmation. It indicates that you are both comfortable together and completely in sync and like minded. You will notice that if you lean in, he will, too, or copy your hand gestures.

The long gaze

Although you may think that he is smitten with you, he could also be playing you here. Holding a long piercing or intense stare isn’t something that comes naturally to most people, therefore he could be using it as a seduction technique and therefore a way of getting you into bed.

Body direction

Generally speaking, if a guy is attracted to a woman, then his body is usually pointing to the direction of the woman. This is done as they like to give out the information that they are attracted to the particular woman.
For example, a man will give you a hint that he likes you by sitting with his toe pointing to your direction. You will know that a guy is flirting with you if he tends to face you more. If you are in a group and the man is generally always facing you, it is more likely that he likes you and that he is showing hints that he is interested in you.

Tilted head

When a guy does tilt his head to the side when your eyes meet, he is subconsciously wanting you to ‘come-hither’. So next time you are in a bar and have been eyeing a guy up and he does too, he is indicating that he wants you to come over and introduce yourself.
On the other hand, an overly tilted head could be a potential sign of sympathy. Alternatively, the person is trying to convince you of their honesty.
You have three options to work on, so be wise! You may also want to bear in mind that we actually tilt our head to one side before we kiss!

Touch and preen

He’ll touch and preen himself. In part, this is nervousness and self consciousness. It’s also because he wants to look good for you. If he’s smoothing a collar or tie, or any piece of clothing for that matter; it’s an auto erotic gesture. Which means, he’s thinking sensually of you. Ooh la la!

Upturned palms

So, upturned wrists are a dead giveaway.  This action is submissive and show openness and honesty. We use open palms to make a connection to another person when we wave to them. But when a man shows a woman (or vice versa) the palms of his hands and insides of wrists when there is sexual attraction, this is an invitation to come closer or reaching out. Wrists are an erogenous zone and can be very sensual.

He leans in

A guy who wants to get intimate with you will often occupy your personal space. In most normal circumstances and social interactions, men will usually position themselves around two feet away. But if a guy has intimacy on the brain and especially with you, then they will usually get a lot closer to you, usually because he is trying to connect and create that intimacy.

He holds or cups your head when he kisses you

This indicates that he has strong feelings for you and it is something that is usually displayed and shown in privacy. He is showing passion in a tender and loving way and can be an inadvertant declaration of togetherness and intimacy.

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